BDSM Beginners Kit
Sample Slave Contract
[NOTE: This is a example only - to give you an idea. It may or may not apply to you - Dornic]
Temporary Contract of Consensual Ownership
The purpose of this instrument is to:
This contract is in no way legally binding, and is meant only as an aid to
better understanding of the needs, duties and responsibilities of Master and
- state the full mutual consent of the undersigned in regards to this
- explain the responsibilities and duties of both Master and slave.
- define safewords and their use.
- explain the use of punishment.
- foster a greater sense of communication between respective parties.
I ____________, hereinafter referred to as slave, do of my own free will,
and being of sound mind and body, do hereby offer myself in consensual
slavery to ____________, hereinafter referred to as Master, for the period
beginning at midnight on ____________ and ending at midnight on ______________.
This agreement may be terminated at any time before the above named date by
either party only in the event of breach of contract. On the above named date
this agreement will be reviewed, negotiated and rewritten or terminated.
Provisions of Contract
- Slave agrees to obey to the best of her ability, and to devote herself
entirely to the pleasure and desires of Master. Slave also renounces all
rights to her own pleasure, comfort, or gratification except insofar as
permitted by Master.
Master agrees to learn what excites slave through exploration and
communication and try to incorporate this into the relationship.
- Master accepts full responsibility of slave. This includes but is not
limited to: slave's survival, health, physical well being, and mental well
being. Slave accepts full responsibility for informing Master of any real or
perceived dangers or safety concerns, but also states that Master's decision
will be final regarding these issues. Master agrees that slave will not be
punished for respectfully stating these concerns. Master further agrees to
listen to slave's concerns with a clear and open mind. Master shall endeavor
not to inflict physical harm upon slave which might require the attention of
someone outside relationship.
- Slave agrees at all times to make her body readily available to Master for
his use. Slave will have hair washed and brushed in the style Master prefers at all
times. Slave agrees to wear any and all clothing Master picks.
- Slave agrees to accept the responsibility of using a safeword when
necessary. Slave acknowledges that safeword is "________" and safe signal is "________".
Master accepts the responsibility of assessing situations where
slave calls safeword and will, to the best of his ability, make judgement on
whether to modify the activity or stop activity entirely. Slave agrees to
hold no ill will due to Master's decison. Master agrees not to punish slave
for the use of a safeword.
- Slave agrees to answer any and all questions asked by Master freely,
promptly, and to the best of her knowledge. Slave further agrees to volunteer
any information that Master should know regarding slave's physical or
emotional state. Master agrees to never use this information to harm slave in
- Master agrees to furnish all toys such as vibrators, etc. and punishment
implements such as crops and whips. Slave agrees to clean and maintain all
toys, have them available for Master's use at all times, and inform Master of
any needed repairs or replacements.
- Slave states that her limits are, but are not limited
to:______________________________________. Master agrees to never violate these limits without
prior negotiation of, and consent by, slave.
- Slave agrees to adress Master as "Sir" or "Master" unless otherwise
directed. Slave agrees to speak respectfully to Master at all times,
including times not spent in a scene. Master may address slave in any way he
- Master agrees to furnish slave with a symbolic token of ownership. Slave
agrees to wear this symbol at all times, except when Master states to do so
would be inappropriate or would non-consensually involve others.
- Slave agrees and understands that any infractions of this agreement, or
any act slave commits which displeases Master, will result in punishment.
Slave will gracefully accept punishment and try to learn from it. Slave
agrees to assemble the punishment materials as ordered by Master and assume
any position needed to accept the punishment. Slave understands that failure
to comply with Master's orders will result in a more severe punishment.
Master will inform slave that she is being punished when punishment occurs.
Master will explain the reason for punishment either before, during, or
following punishment. Master agrees to discipline only out of a desire to
better the slave, and further agrees to never punish out of, or during,
feelings of anger.
Signed, this __________ day of ____________, 19___.